Faith at the Centre: The Greek Orthodox Church and Funeral Rites
Greek funerals are almost always conducted within the Greek Orthodox Church, and the priest plays a central role from the very beginning. The family typically contacts their local parish as soon as possible after a death, since the church’s involvement shapes the timing and structure of everything that follows.
The funeral itself usually takes place within a few days of death, in keeping with Orthodox tradition, though this can be adjusted to accommodate family travelling from overseas.
Before the Funeral: The Open Casket Viewing
An open casket viewing is a common part of Greek funeral tradition. Family and close friends gather to pay their respects, and it’s customary for visitors to offer brief condolences to the immediate family rather than lengthy conversation.
Flowers are usually welcomed, though some families request donations to a charity or the church instead — this is worth checking with the family directly if you’re attending.
Inside the Service: What Happens at the Church
The funeral service follows the structure of the Greek Orthodox liturgy, with hymns, prayers and readings conducted largely in Greek, alongside English where the priest accommodates a mixed congregation. Incense and candles feature prominently, symbolising prayers rising to God and the light of Christ.
Near the end of the service, mourners are invited to approach the casket for a final farewell — often a kiss on the forehead or an icon placed nearby — before the casket is closed.
Burial, the Makaria Meal, and the 40-Day Mourning Period
Burial, rather than cremation, remains the traditional preference in Greek Orthodox practice, reflecting the belief in bodily resurrection. After the burial, families often host a meal known as makaria, where simple, comforting foods are shared as a way of supporting the bereaved.
Mourning customs continue well beyond the funeral day. A memorial service is traditionally held 40 days after the death, marking the end of the soul’s journey in Orthodox belief, with further memorials sometimes observed at three months, six months and one year.
What to Wear and How to Show Respect
At a Glance: Supporting a Greek Family Through Their Loss
- Wear dark, modest clothing to both the viewing and the service
- Offer brief, sincere condolences rather than lengthy conversation
- Check whether flowers or charitable donations are preferred
- Be mindful that mourning customs, such as wearing black, may continue for months
Planning a funeral that honours Greek Orthodox tradition doesn’t need to add to the stress of an already difficult time. Our team has supported many Sydney families through culturally and religiously specific services, working closely with local parishes to make sure every detail is handled with care. If you’d like to talk through what’s involved for your family, get in touch with us for a free, no-obligation conversation.